The Pace of Leadership: Why Burnout Is Not a Badge of Faithfulness

by Jacki C. King Church Answers Women

I was talking to another ministry leader about rhythms and leadership. She was really tired, questioning her calling, and feeling like she wanted to quit. At one point, she said something that stuck with me. She said she does not pace herself well. She just keeps going, says yes to new needs and opportunities, shows up, carries more, and pushes through until she is completely exhausted. I have felt the same way in past seasons of leadership, and maybe you have too.

I think many women in ministry know this feeling.

There is pressure that comes with leadership. The needs are real, and the opportunities are always present. There’s always another event, conversation, or person who needs help. Over time, it can feel like saying yes to everything is part of remaining faithful. Leading without balance will eventually lead to exhaustion instead of productivity.

Sometimes the best thing to do is to pause and reflect on why we’re moving at the current pace in ministry. Before discussing rhythms, boundaries, or rest, it can be helpful to ask ourselves a few questions:

What need am I trying to fulfill on my own without Jesus? What makes it hard for me to say no? What am I trying to prove to myself or others? What relationships or priorities are being neglected because of ministry? Am I leading because I am connected to Christ or because of pressure and expectation?

What need am I trying to fulfill on my own without Jesus?

What makes it hard for me to say no?

What am I trying to prove to myself or others?

What relationships or priorities are being neglected because of ministry?

Am I leading because I am connected to Christ or because of pressure and expectation?

These questions are not intended to make us feel guilty, but to raise…